As my daughter’s 1st birthday is only weeks away, I feel guilty that I still haven’t written her birth story yet. I want her to have this one day, like her 2 sisters, so here we go!
This birth was slightly different than the other 2, in that we knew how fast all of my labors go and tried to be prepared for that. We had AC’s brother come stay out our house starting 2 weeks after my last progesterone shot because we knew once I took the last one at 36 weeks my body usually goes one week on its own and then gets mad and sends me into active labor the next week. This one was no different. At 38 weeks we had Adeline’s very first day of Kindergarten happening on September 7th and I very much wanted to be there and present for her and not in the hospital and thank you God I got to do that! So that Wednesday came and we enjoyed taking Adeline to her 1st day of school and everything went smoothly at first. After we picked her up, we all celebrated at Coldstone Creamery for some ice cream. I remember not feeling too well and debating if I should even eat the ice cream but did anyway haha. Then later that day at home AC cooked me some dinner though I really didn’t feel like eating at all at that point and at the back of my mind started wondering if I should be listening to my body and this wasn’t normal for me to not feel like eating.
Around 10pm after the girls were asleep and so was AC and his brother, before I could get ready for bed myself I started getting hit with painful contractions. They have always immediately come fast and hard so I knew there was no time to wait even though they were only about 7 min apart at this time. I told AC we needed to head to the hospital so we woke up his brother to watch the girls and away we went. On the 15 min drive to the hospital I started worrying if we were going to soon. For the 1st time I wasn’t having contractions every min like my other 2 and wasn’t in a huge amount of pain yet. When we got to the hospital and checked in through the ER section they took me up to a room and started monitoring everything to decide if I was ready to be admitted yet or sent home. The nurse said I was only 4 cm dilated and with contractions every 5 to 7 minutes she’d have to talk to the doctor to see if I should stay or not! I was so nervous and explained that my labors always speed up super fast and I was worried if I went home there would be no time to make it back. Thankfully the doctor agreed and they admitted me that night around 11:30pm. Once admitted I started asking for an epidural because with Aoife I didn’t get to have one and I did not want to experience that kind of pain again. The nurse assured me that once they got my IV in my arm they would go get the epidural for me. Well getting an IV in my arm is always tricky and takes many nurse attempts so I was still without an epidural until around midnight and my contractions were unbearably painful at that point and I just wanted them to stop. I think I was dilated to a 6 or 7 at that point when the anesthesiologist finally came in and got me my epidural. It immediately started to dull the pain some and I was assured after 15 min I shouldn’t feel a thing…yeah at 15 min instead of feeling good the pain started getting worse and worse again until it felt like I didn’t have an epidural at all! I kept pushing the button on my IV to release more but nothing took the pain away. The nurse got me a peanut ball to try to get me fully dilated since the pain wasn’t stopping. That ball made the pain unbearable and I asked to be checked again to see how close we were to being ready to push. I was at a 9 when the anesthesiologist came to try a 2nd round of the epidural, but unfortunately that one did absolutely nothing to stop the horrific pain I was in. I remember asking to be checked again because I was feeling so awful and thought I might need to throw up, but then as the nurses were rushing around to get me a bucket and realized I needed to start pushing, now! The nurse told me I needed to wait because I wasn’t quite at 10cm and she didn’t want me to tear but there was no stopping this, I told her I had to push, the baby was coming! SO they all got in position and honestly all I felt was never ending pain, I didn’t even feel like I was pushing at all and was completely surprised when they said they say her head and then she was out! Alexis was born at 3:36am, weighing 6lbs 15 oz and 19 1/4 inches long ❤
I cannot describe the relief you feel after your beautiful baby comes out and the pain instantly stops. It is the best feeling in the world lol. They put my adorable baby Alexis on my chest and it was magical. She was perfect. AC and I stayed in the hospital for 2 days just loving on our new baby and thankfully my parents came into town to take Adeline and Aoife to the rest of their first week of school.